Pickup Line by Sweet Talkers

                         

                  Pickup Line By Sweet Talkers

     Communication in daily life are crucial for everybody im this world, even animal are talking with themselves with their own language. The things I would like to say here is some people might think pickup lines are fun and some people do like to use them, whether serious or just for a laugh so I thought why pickup line doesn’t work and what to do instead.

                  The Problem

   

     One of the biggest problems with memorizing and repeating pickup lines is the attitude and mindset that naturally goes along with it. As soon as a guy starts searching for a pickup line, hes essentially telling himself “I need a clever line to get women to like me because Im not good enough as I am.” If a guy thinks hes not good enough for a certain woman, it means he’ll always be searching for the right thing to say to keep her interested, meaning meeting and attracting women will always be an uphill battle.

   

  On the other hand, women want a man with integrity, a guy who lives by words that come out of his mouth.

            Why Pickup Lines Fail

     Even if you managed to find the best pickup line in the world, it wouldn’t exactly work. All pickup lines do, if they work at all, is create a temporary spark of attraction. This small spark will fade, and if you have nothing else interesting to say, which you probably don’t if you felt the need to use the pickup line in the first place, her attraction will quickly dissipate.

     Lets say you got a date once or twice or maybe got laid from using a pickup line, lets even say you’ve become what you consider to be pickup line master, it still wont get you far. Why? Because after that you cant hide behind memorized words any longer and the real you will come out. And what do you think would happen once she realizes you’re not the clever witty man she thought you were?

            Solutions When Approaching Women

     Its all a matter of attitude. If you think you’re someone that’s bad at talking to women, you will begin to believe you are and suddenly that will be the only outcome you seem to encounter. Instead, if you just relax and be yourself without tricks, women will take notice.

    Not only does trying to fake it stem from a very negative mindset, if men would only instead change their image of themselves by simply being themselves and remaining confident in who they are, they would see much better results with the ladies.

    You can try maintaining confident, high value body language by keeping your head up, spine straight, shoulders back, and a smile on your face. Body language and sub-communications can really go a long way when it comes to attracting women.

   To further show confident with your body language, try keeping your body language open. For example, avoid folding your arms across your chest, as that is a more closed off, defensive posture. Try to remain loose, let your arms freely swing by your side, and just have a good time.

   Rather than trying to knock her socks off with a line, only to have that attraction quickly fade, focus on creating a fun and enjoyable conversation (which is even better if you meet due to a common hobby or class). Her interest will gradually build and last longer than the time it would take for any pickup line to actually work.

Go on, give it a real shot.

Happy dating.

Reference: https://imgur.com/gallery/1onaZ